To straight out ask someone if they enjoyed having sex with you? I know that if someone wants to do it again that's a good sign, but what if the situation is complicated.... Can you just be like 'so.... Did you enjoy us together?'
I am someone who is big on asking questions. I like knowing or at least having some vague idea about what someone likes in the bedroom before banging them but that wasn't really possible before this.
I just want to know if he liked it!
is it weird? not at all! how else do people know if the sex was good if questions aren't asked? the only way we can improve/ change things sexually is by asking these questions. It's not about being a "good fuck" like the previous poster, however it's always a bonus to know what each other is into/up for sexually before getting to that point.. yes? :)
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